We all know just how all-consuming it can be being a parent. Those little people we’ve brought into the world rely on us 100% to keep them safe, nourished and cared for, and that job never goes away. But what about our own, individual passions? What about those little things that make us tick from time to time? Just because we’re parents doesn’t mean that we can’t allow ourselves a little time for indulging our own fantasies too.
A little bit of what you fancy…
From the moment our children are born, we make it our absolute goal in life to provide for them, and to be there for them when they need us. But this shouldn’t mean that we have to sacrifice our own needs. There’s plenty of time to be both Mum to our kids, and still have time for some fun of our own.
The world of Subs and Doms is a million miles away from the world of being a Mum. But, many Mums are finding that they need that separate life in order to feel alive. There’s something incredibly satisfying about allowing your inner fetishes to creep to the surface and reminding yourself of the woman you are inside.
You may find that being a dominatrix gives you back some of the power and control that being a Mum somehow takes away. OK, so it’s a completely different kind of power. But, having the power over a willing submissive partner does satisfy some kind of primal need in many women who sometimes feel as though their lives have taken on a bit of a chaotic edge.
Whilst it might seem extreme, turning to femdom dating is actually more common than you might think.
Meeting a willing partner
OK, so as a busy Mum, you might be wondering how on earth you might find the time to meet somebody who wants the same thing as you. Where on earth do you even begin to look for likeminded people who might also get a kick out of this kind of thing???
This is where the internet comes in!
You don’t even need to leave the house these days in order to hook up with somebody initially. Websites such as subs and doms are geared up specifically towards pairing you up with a potential partner.
All you need to do, is settle down one evening when the kids are tucked up in bed, fill in a few details about yourself and the kind of person you’re hoping to meet, and you’re off.
Once you get matched up with somebody, there’s no pressure to arrange to actually meet up if you don’t want to. You can take some time to figure out exactly how you want this whole thing to progress. You’re absolutely in control, at all times, and that’s really important to remembers when you’re taking your first tentative steps into this world.
If you do arrange to meet up, don’t forget that you need to keep yourself safe at all times. Make sure that somebody knows where you’re going, and you know exactly how you’re going to get home. Most of all, have some fun!
*This is a collaborative post.